The Last type og guy to avoid!!!

6The ex-obsessed

   Your are less a girlfriend and more a substitute for his last one,likely the girl whi dumped him.He’s totally infatuated with her-not you.

If you date him :You'll always feel like being compared with the ex-and coming up short.That would crush any ego.

ATtention!!!For mY Ger Friend out Ther!

  Bought a magazine and saw this article,quite useful for our gers,suppose want to scan the whole article but the image just too large,no choice,just have to type it out myself for the sake of my friend from getting hurt in the relationship,and for myself,to remind me not to fall luv with this type of guy.

Danger!!!!!!Danger!!!

Top 6 Guys to AVOID

1.The Game Player

   You think he's perfect -attentive,caring,sweet.But those phone calls he sneaks off to take?They saw a few other girls are thinking the same thing.

If you date him :You'll end up with a heart broken heart-because when it comes to love,he's looking for quantity instead of quality.

2.The Cheapskate

   He loves his cash-a lot more than he loves you.Go out to dinner,and he'll be sure to tell you what your half of the bill is at the end of the night.

If you date him :his reluctance to spend a dime will you feel cheap-like he doesn't think you're worth a dime either.

3.The fixer upper

   You can replace his ugly brown slacks with cool jeans,but you can't change his personality any more than you can change his body type.

If you date him :You'll never be satisfied.If he's not right for you now,trying to "improve"him will only frustrate you both.

4.The Stalker

   He really likes you.And at first it's nice to be showered with attention.But this constant phone calls and weird doodles of you are just creepy.

If you date him :you'll wind up obsessed with your caller ID to dodge him.His clinginess will smother you-and drive you nuts!!!

5.The Fighter

   He's hothead who treats you more like a verbal-sparring partner than a girlfriend. And he goes ballistic if another guy even looks at you.

If you date him :you'll always argue.His love of confrontation will create way more stress than any relationship can survive.

And the last,and the most dangerous one,lol...but to be continud.......dont go away,hahaaa

Sick......

I think me gonna fall sick again,just feel my entire body so weak,mu bone is aching,cracking.....what stupid#$%?//*(@ weather.or maybe just my immune system too weak......just recall back an interesting quote which forwarded from mine friend.

"If you love something,set it free......If it come back,it's yours......If it doesn't,it never was"

This quote is specially for all the person and all my friend out there.Think deeply,and you will know what the real meaning of the quote.

**(headache,cant blogging at this moment)

All About Manicure and friends+Big head Photo

This whole week is just about manicure and manicure.wednesday just went for manicure then saturday went for manicure class.basically is learn how to do simple manicure by ourself.is really worth it.just $20,have refeshement,drinks,nice environment,and also freebies.at first want to purchase whole set of maincure tools,now no need already.was given during the class.after the class just wandering at Orchard,so many happening.got roadshow,sales...and so crowded (almost fainted,dizzy,always like this,don't know why)luckily didn't faint.

suppose will have make over appointment.free one de,hehee......but too bad the make over have to be a model infront of many people,so just given up and wasted our wholeday waitting at Orchard.errr.....actually not really wasted whereby we all did enjoy ourtime there,joking and laughing the wholeday like crazy women.just love the feeling of being like crazy women.

Sunday not much happening,rush to JB by myself just to bought cake eat.was kinda scared when I go there alone since my hp was lost at JB.then rush back to SG again to met up my friend as we agreed go her friend new launch manicure shop.thought can have more info about running bussiness but somehow she was thinking I want to be her competitor and didn't reveal much.well,can't say much,is her right.and after that went for big head photo shoot.I just like take photo very much,every time I saw that machine will auto attracted and will straight away go in there.we all screaming,yield,laugh like siao cha bor,can't stop laughing when I reach home and till the time I want to went to bed.really abit siao,hahaaaa......and went see those people ice skating.there are so proffesional,ahhhh....actually not all la,some of them almost fall down.and that time was really want to go in skate but ....too cold,I am just weard person lol,can't stand too cold or too hot....person like me don't know which country can take me in.....all I want to shout is
I WAS TOTALLY HAVING GREAT WEEKEND THIS WEEK.SO DOES THE UPCOMING WEEKEND.I just want to treassure every second on the earth,it's a pleasure to live on earth.few nice photo:

Both Suo Gu 1st time Manicure

Living in the earth for such a long time,this was the 1st time went for manicure,hahaaa,....please don't laugh me,if not because I have free coupon,I don't think will go for such luxury.It's just kinda too much for me.I rather spend the money over movie or buying some CD.

went down met up my friend at Woodland on Wednesday,the nearest outlet they have for the manicure.both of us never been for manicure.so we just keep talking n laughing either before or after the manicure.the outlet was oversee by a very very small size girls.she seem like not really that professional while doing the manicure.maybe me and friend conversation distract her concentration.and the result of the manicure

TANG TANG

Voxy Nail creation.nice or not?guess whose hand is this.we both so funny.hide aside so we can take our manicure picture.feel like doing criminal.actually can take more picture,but well,my hp lost already :S......so....only few picture I get it from my friend.

Start Afresh!!

XIAO MEY WILL START AFRESH,FOR THE SAKE OF MY FRIENDS AND FOR THE SAKE OF MY FAMILY,AND ALSO YOU(the person who ever play the song of "tong hua" for me)



P/S :

I do really touching and almost cry out when you play the song.Do hope will have chance to listen it again.

Fort Minor-
Where'd You Go?

LyricsWhere'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone.
She said "Some days I feel like shit,
Some days I wanna quit, and just be normal for a bit,"
I don't understand why you have to always be gone,
I get along but the trips always feel so long,
And, I find myself tryna stay by the phone,
'Cause your voice always helps me when I feel so alone,
But I feel like an idiot, workin' my day around the call,
But when I pick up I don't have much to say,
So, I want you to know it's a little fucked up,
That I'm stuck here waitin', at times debatin',
Tellin' you that I've had it with you and your career,
Me and the rest of the family here singing "Where'd you go?"
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone.
Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone,
Please come back home...
You know the place where you used to live,
Used to barbeque up burgers and ribs,
Used to have a little party every Hallowe'en with candy by thepile,
But now, you only stop by every once in a while,
Shit, I find myself just fillin' my time,
Anything to keep the thought of you from my mind,
I'm doin' fine, I plan to keep it that way,
You can call me if you find you have somethin' to say,
And I'll tell you, I want you to know it's a little fuckedup,
That I'm stuck here waitin', at times debatin',
Tellin' you that I've had it with you and your career,
Me and the rest of the family here singing "Where'd you go?"
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone.
Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone,
Please come back home...
I want you to know it's a little fucked up,
That I'm stuck here waitin', no longer debatin',
Tired of sittin' and hatin' and makin' these excuses,
For while you're not around, and feeling so useless,
It seems one thing has been true all along,
You don't really know what you got 'til it's gone,
I guess I've had it with you and your career,
When you come back I won't be here and you'll can sing it...
Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone.
Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone,
Please come back home...
Please come back home...
Please come back home...
Please come back home...
Please come back home...

Failure

I am totally a failure.failure in giving a better life to my mum.failure in controlling my feeling towards you.failure in completing the task.failure in managing my life.

Is no use of talking all this rubbish.when ever about relationship thing,I am totally a failure.can't tell you so much,yet have to pretend I am strong because I don't like feeling of being depressed.just not like mine character.I am just one of the stubborn ger,the harder u hit,the bigger the bounce you get.how to get over you?I can't think of any way to forget about you.I can feel that the feeling you toward me is change already but gers always like this,stupid!!no matter how the person treat you,just hard to get over with him and one day and only one day really hit on big rock,get hurt,bleeding then only will know it's time to wake up.

There is a person told me,if only you believe there is a miracle then only the miracle will happen.I do believe in miracle when I am still young.have faith in God.that was when my father hospitalized.the last time I see him,that day was raining and now I hate rainy day.I pray so deep from my heart,please bless my dad from this incident,I will be obedient and good ger.I will study hard,I will listen what ever my mum etc........somehow what I get just a disappointment.I never blame the god but instead of difficulties believe in god and miracle.

After the disappointment,how to believe in miracle?I rather believe myself,well although sometimes I also go for pray since is my family religion,just won't be superfictous.After the incident,I have to become or pretend to be strong,once I collapse,I have no idea what will happen to my mum,and mine elder brother.

Hidding emotion is my best way to protect myself of getting hurt but I hope I no need playing this seek n hide emotion,where by just want to be myself,be true of myself.it's very tiring.........

Black Sunday;Monday Blues;how about Tuesday???

Recently I been bad luck,maybe because the 7 month coming soon.I always bad luck during this time.

Thought this weekend will be a great weekend I been waiting for but all turn into a nightmare,heart break........

(080706)
Saturday
suppose having interview to go for at Tanjong Pagar,was so lazy due is 5 1/2 work day where by I get use for 5 work day.so in the end still didn't turn up for the interview and turn up to shopping with friend,an old friend of mine.was trying to patch back with that friend.It's really weird the friendship with her.at start we didn't chat with each other but don't know why suddenly we become so close friend and without any arguement we no longer as close as previous.This time around I know she will be attending this gathering,thinking don't want to go but hoping still have chance to be friend again.some how .....fail....both of us just too stubborn.Been to Marina Square for whole day but didn't shop anything and just bought a bracelet and Tank's CD (just love his song),he jus talented.reached home was about 7pm+ ,so tiredddddd.........but tomorrow still have one more gathering and where the nightmare begin.

(090706)
Sunday....Nigtmare Begin
Midnight 3.30am my mobile phone ring,and I thought was my alarm and thinking to switch off who knows is actually my friend call me.
Kenny :"Hi,you asleep already?"
Me:"(fei hua,of cause I am asleep)yup.why?"
Kenny:"I think tomorrow I can't met you all for gathering,my car hit by a car,and I want to check out now and going back KL."
Me:"Huh?!!(Totally wake up from my sweet dream)then, are you still alright?"
Kenny:"I'm fine.just my car was hurt terribly"
and ti ta ti ta ti ta.....
just find my friend was so cute.because of the incident then want to check out and drive home to KL,is very dangerous somemore during midnight ler,anything happen who will know.anyway luckily he didn't do so because he need to met my dear friend so much,hahaaaa(I think).I think he will kill me if he find out I wrote all this over the blog but just need to express out my feeling.
after he waking me up twice and it's already morning,sighhhh....not enough sleep again,and easily lead me to headache.at first was having great time with mine friend,singing,lunching,chit chat and shopping till my mobile phone was stolen!!!!!ARRRRRRRR!!!!!my beloved SE K700i.when just window shopping with my friend and when I want to take out my mobile phone and have a look,just found out IT WAS MISSING!MISSING?????!!!!what happen?how can this happen to me again.this is the second time my mobile phone being steal.why they always targetting on me.Am I easy bully?was really heart pain almost cry out and shocked my friend and they not dare to say much thing.After a few hours struggling with my feeling,I finally get it over.Not totally get over at least I can sleep during night that is counted alright already.previous time when mobile phone was missing, I was down for few month.maybe get use to it.things not mean together with you,that mean no.just like relationship.when can't get along,it just can't get along,and when it was gone,no matter how hard you try,is still useless.

after the incident,met my friend Kenny.we both like totally no mood but no choice still have to go on with our programme so the rest of the friend won't feel odd.at least we did a good job.they all enjoy the time so does me.....althought not totally enjoy.after that head down to tax free zone to get some chocolate whereby most people say it's very cheap,but I don't think so.after that went back to City Square again to catch our movie "Superman Returns".errrr....it's not say very nice or terrible,just so so only.I don't like Superman,don't know why.one most obvious reason is that I don't like his hairstyle,just hate the curl infront his forehead,want to snipp it off,hahaaa....
After the movie just heading home and seperate with friend ler.

The reality so cruel.In one day can so many thing happen.that why I always still with mine principle,treasure every moment when still alive,we just don't know what will happen next second.LIfe~~~

Can't wait for this weekend,hoping Friday coming soon,cause I will be going back hometown again,Malacca.Miss mummy so much...

Is not end of the world,HAPPY go LUCKY!!!

I really happy that so many of mine friends concern about me after the incident.I am so over joy.at least there are people who still concern me.friends mean everything.
The funniest was the one which actually called me during night time whereby I actually sleep already.well,suppose all the while I off my mobile phone,some how nowadays get used to on it.then he ring me and I am in unconscious condition.

here how the conversation are :
friend :"wey,just now I try to go on line.then find out that (you or feeling) out of love ler,are you still alright??"
Mey( still unconscious) :"ohhh,......is it..........."
friend :"when this thing happen"?
Mey:"........can we chat on Sunday,I am sleeping right now ler...?"
Mey:"....bye~~~.."
that all.

I cant really recall back the whole conversation since I in sleeping mode.that's the few I can remember.I don't know is because of concerning of "bak gua" but I really feeling so happy to have such a friend.when ever I think back,find it kinda hilarious,but really thanks and hope yours one will be blossom.heheeee.....

Being rejected isn't end of the world but just feel depress,that's all. Now,I have alot of thing to move on.first of all and the though of all.can't reveal first,cause I just to make sure I will success only then sure tell you all.so best wishes for me.

See!!!It's not end of the world,still sunshine,and I am still smiling.life is wonderful`````(although the picture was taken for sometimes ago)heheee

Luv=Misery (Part.2)

This misery not gonna end.Yesterday just told him how I feel and I been rejected.Maybe I just shouln't told him,at least he not feeling confuse or pressure.somehow I think we still remain as friend.

Was really down when he told me that he don't want to hurt me or get hurt,this mean he rejected me.So depressed till I delete all his previous sms,his contact number and want to erase everything about him from mine memory.have a cry out.finally my tears flow out.that's great at least I can cry all unhappy thing else if keep in my heart,I think I really will fall sick and that not my character.I am a person who laugh and cry when I ever I want to.

Suppose last nite going to my brother house,chit chat with him,well not chit chat about mine matter.everytime I feeling down,after chit chat with my brother sure will get better.I didn't go to his place in the end was kind moody and my brother sms to me why I sudden change my mind,because OT?Pak Tor?Or "Lau Sai"?this really funny and laugh so loud.hahaaa.....ok.after that call back home to mimi,kinda miss her.when talk to her I can forget everything unhappiness.She know me very well (after all I am her daughter)whereby she ask why sudden call home,is it because I not happy....(just love her)I say just miss her.....and she keep asking am I pak tor already,repeat that question duno for how many time....so CUteeeeee....

Chat for a while really have to hang out,because the phone bills will be costly end of the month and I really sleepy and tired after all this thing.after so many concern I received.suddenly I have back to normal again.well,I wont say anything about my feeling toward him,just treaten him as friend for this moment,and I want to be happy again cause I am happy go lucky girl.

I never regret told him about mine feeling toward him,at least I did try.This is the 1st time I tell a guy I like him,I just a brave girl,well all the while I am a brave girl,only this time round more brave than others who not dare to say out,kekeeee....

"LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL,LOVE IS WONDERFUL"

Luv=Misery (Part.1)

I always remind myself not so easy to fall love to others,well,i did a good job whereby so far only like 2 person,just admire without going further relationship cause everytime when ever I am thinking get closer to that person,sure can't succeed either he found new girl friend else he already have one.is a misery in this situation.if is a happy ending then it's become LUV=HAPPINES.

But I did it again.and fall to a guy.At first I not sure about what is that feeling,after figuring out whole night,I have to admit,that feeling just same as the previous time I like a person.I lock my feeling so tight,no one can ever can open up,but he did it,he just somehow did it.

I sure will tell him about my feeling later on,cause I don't like this type misery feeling whereby like him but can't tell him,is a misery.want to cry,but tears just stubborn,don't want to flow out,is a misery.heart pain because he still care about his ex,is a misery.I don't know wether he did read on my blog or not but I don't want to be a corward and I'm in misery.Maybe I will loss him,maybe he just want to be friend.......too many maybe,one thing for sure I REALLY LIKE HIM.

You can say me stupid,because I don't mind being your ex subsitute.maybe one day you found the time for me being you ex subsitute is expiry,you just let me know,just want you be happy.when you tell me u always hurting yourself,I am in pain also.

Previous time I will mind being other subsitute but for you I don't know why I change my mind.I just know when you like the person,you must like him totally,then only the relationship is meaningful.

will mine misery ended here?